The separation is an important moment in the life of a person, may be experienced as a liberation, as a tragedy or as a simple agreement between responsible adults.

The changes in our life generally make us insecure. For us You are and remains a person, not a number of a role in agenda, a person with his fragility, his doubts, which needs a reassuring support, wich needs a human, objective and clear advice.
Many come to us angry, resentful, but these are feelings passengers, life is long and far greater than us. What you deal with lucidity and seriousness today will bear lasting fruit tomorrow.
We are at your side, but we are not your submissive servants, our job is also to contradict you if this is necessary for your protection. We reason in the long term, leaving the immediate at the emotions, which are of the customer and not our own. This is one of the reasons why there is the figure of the lawyer: a professional third party, not emotionally involved in the story, which for this will give you the best advice and the best protection.

Given that the separation is only a weakening of marriage, in which disappear some obligations (such as cohabitation and fidelity) but that does not stop the marriage: in fact you can not remarry. There are two forms of separation:
In the consensual separation the couple, assisted by the same office (with the obvious cost savings) or each from their trust, they must appear before a judge already agreed on all points of their separation (child custody, allocation of the house marital, child support, etc.), during a brief hearing, the Judge takes note of the fact consensual decisions of spouses and after having been asked to sign the report he dismisses them. After a few days, without the participation of the parties or either of the lawyers, the Court collegially homologous separation and the process is concluded. Needless to say, this form is the most civilized, fast and economical.
But it is not always possible to agree and then, given that achieve separation is almost a right (although in theory the judge may not grant it, but it never happened), you will face a real lawsuit with sending to counterpart an action for judicial separation. You can make a request to charge separation to your consort, who is deemed to have caused by his conduct contrary to the obligations arising from the marriage. It become a real clash, lawyers must necessarily be two, and the cause can last for years, battling over custody of children, home maintenance and other matters that the human imagination has really made ​​many (even those who should be “entrusted” the former family pet).
In short, it must be worth really worth it! Often, however, a judicially initiated saparazione ends prematurely with a record that makes the consensual the dispute.

SHORT DIVORCE?

Except for a very few cases specifically mentioned in which you can jump straight to the divorce, the antechamber of the divorce is the separation plus one space-time of 3 years (during which, for the optimistic legislature, it is hoped that the spouses reconcile), a term that is discussed for years to bring to a year.
Even for divorce there is a form of consensual separation (the precise diction is joint divorce), always possible even with only one lawyer shared, simpler, faster and cheaper and always expected when Separated couples agree on the terms to be included in their separation and that often follow equal equal those of separation. However, if the two sides do not agree, you will make a judicial divorce, for which we recall the above said in relation to judicial separation.

Want some advice? The charge separation is not easily granted by the Judges and weight the process without great advantages, especially if you are not full of goods and property. Leave aside the grudges and try to live civilly this time, do not waste money unnecessarily in long and exhausting causes that will only alive the memory of something that is done, look forward and if you have children remain good parents, they will remember it.